Friday, December 31, 2021

Needed In Afterlife

  

The shopping Race  before holidays, reminds me of a common reaction heard from people :Hey, what do you need all this stuff for? Remember, you'll take nothing with you when you leave this world!

True, but that wasn't  so in antiquity. I learnt about it at the archeological museum (one of the finest in Europe) of Heraklion, Crete island. There was a section in the museum that attracted many visitors, as it displayed exhibits found in people's graves at cemeteries: tools, weapons, clothes, jewelry, worship figurines, decorations, household items.    Interesting!

People in ancient times demanded to be buried with their belongings as they believed they 'll need the stuff in Afterlife. Not a good idea. Soon after the burial, the grave was opened by thieves and robbers. 

Swords and brooches were noted as being among the most commonly taken items from the graves, probably because these items were given as gifts and passed on across generations providing folk stories and fond memories. Still, even after the robberies, there was enough stuff left for the modern archeological excavations to discover.

(I noticed a newspaper picture there of Liz Taylor wearing a golden brooch  in the form of a bull horn designed according to the original item found during an excavation. I included the photo in the post I wrote in 2016, after my visit at the museum).

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I  believe that behind the Afterlife scenario, there's also the very human tendency to get attached to items, as it often occurs to me . This tendency makes it hard to impossible to declutter the house. Sometimes, the item has neither money value nor sentimental one. I just happen to like it, and even though I don't use it, or it takes up space, I won't get rid of it. So, there  goes my decluttering.

 

52 comments:

  1. A very poignant post for the last day of the year! I am thinking LOST TOMB a Chinese series about the grave robbers. Of course, there are traps everywhere.

    Also, the rampant Covid variant comes to mind too. Lots of people on our staff either have it now or waiting to find a place to get tested.

    I so need to declutter myself. I am pretty sure I have a lot of things nobody would want.

    Happy New Year! All the best to a wonderful and safe new year!

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    1. I'm not familiar with the Chinese series LOST TOMB.I suppose it's highly captivating!
      Sorry, Covid is rampant in your area.
      Take care, be well and safe!

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  2. We're funny things, people I mean. Even the ancient Egyptians hoarded items to take to the next world. I wonder why we do that?

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    1. Well,ancient Egypt and Afterlife is a big topic.There are many books and articles about it. The Egyptians believed that life on earth is only a part of a long journey, and they had complex preparations for after life.

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  3. As I was decluttering, each time I found I was able to let go of more things.

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    1. Kudos to you! De-cluttering to me is sometimes some kind of torture.

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  4. If you like something, then hang on to it if you can. I had to get rid of many things I cherished before we moved to Belize. I did take many photos of them first, so I can look back on them fondly.

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    1. Taking photos of the items we cherish or those we are about to dispoes of, is a very good idea!
      I'll try to do that, hoping this would help me with de-cluttering.

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  5. The pharaohs were buried with treasures so they could continue their ostentatious life in the afterlife. Some even took their pets and servants. Boats and fans.
    I have never been to Egypt. Maybe be I should add the Pyramids to my bucket list.
    The aboriginals buried their dead with personal belongings to ensure a safe passage into the spirit world.
    I have been trying to be a minimalist for a few years now, but I am still far from being one. : ) I am getting there though… There are a few items I can not get rid of. I have this gorgeous top I bought in London (England) many, many years ago. It doesn’t fit me anymore obviously nor s it appropriate for my age now. I received so many compliments at the time, I just can’t donate this piece of clothing. : ))

    I still think that Elizabeth Taylor was the most beautiful woman in the world. : )

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    1. I have never been to Egypt either.It would be very interesting to visit the archeological sites there, the Pyramids in particular.
      You've got the facts right: pharaohs and aborigines were buried with their precious treasures and personal belongings.
      Minimalism is my goal too; hard to achieve, but not impossible.

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  6. Happy New Year, Duta! Let’s hope for a better year.

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    1. Thank you, Catarina. Wishing you too a happy,healthy, and prosperous New Year!

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  7. This was very interesting to read, Duta, and I enjoyed it as well as thinking about it. I read a fictional book by Jodi Picoult The Book of Two Ways. The original Book of the Two Ways was discovered in ancient Egyptian coffins and was described as a map of the afterlife called the Book of Two Ways. Here is a brief synopsis of it:

    "In Jodi Picoult's version, The Book of Two Ways, Dawn is an Egyptologist exploring the tombs of ancient kings on the Nile." In the book the author does a little history about why the Egyptians were buried with their possessions for them to use in their afterlife if they achieved the goal of getting to the afterlife. I don't remember all the details of the book as I read it a few years ago, but I do remember it was fascinating to read the historical features of it.

    Because we have moved a lot, I've grown use to decluttering as I got tired of moving nick nacks and the like from home to home. Hubby holds on to more things than I do. After the horrors of decluttering his parents' home when they passed (and it was a horror) I have resolved not to leave that to my son to have to do so it is easier for me to get rid of things than to hold on to them :)

    May 2022 be a kind year for you Duta!

    betty

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    1. Thanks, Betty, for your kind words.
      "The Book of Two Ways", about the egyptologist exploring the tombs of ancient kings, sounds fascinating!
      Yes, de-cluttering can be a bit of an
      horror thing.
      Wishing you a fabulous New Year!

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    1. Happy New Year to you too, Christine!
      I wish you good health, success, and prosperity in year 2022!

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  9. I have a story about that! I don't believe we take anything to the afterlife. But if you do a coffin (vs. cremation) it's a good way to get rid of things you don't know what to do with. My dad was a Ham radio operator and he had some rare tube that he just loved. He loved it so much that he put it under a glass dome and proudly displayed it on a shelf in the living room. When he died, I had no idea what to do with the tube. It felt wrong to throw it away and I wasn't sure who would want it. So I put it in the coffin along with a Christmas ornament and a couple of other things I didn't know what to do with. When people came to the funeral home visitation the Hams were tickled pink to see that tube and knowing it was going with him! It was a huge relief. Someday if they ever dig up the cemetery and find the bones -- they'll find some weird tube, like a time capsule because I don't thing that thing would ever biodegrade!

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    1. Oh, that's a good story showing what a loving daughter you were to your father!
      In a way, I'm like your late father in that I get to love an item, and I find it hard to give it away.

      (Jews bury their dead in a white shroud - no coffin. The deceased's body is placed in the tomb in direct touch with the earth. Exception: soldiers who are buried in a simple, wooden casket).

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    2. That's fascinating, Duta. I didn't know that.

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    3. You mean the jewish burial tradition of no coffin, only in a burial garment.
      There are communities where this is not quite accepted - but that's the rule.

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  10. I never understood people wanting to take their belongings or jewels with them into the casket. Happy New Year.

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    1. People's beliefs are not always understood by others. Sometimes, these beliefs are not even clear to their own self.
      Wishing you a Happy and Prosperous New Year!

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  11. During the lockdowns, I spent a lot of time allocating my treasures in a new will. Burning or burying the things I love would break my heart.

    The second thing I did was go through the old clothes, shoes, bags and hats, to donate to a charity shop. Even old clothes are still very wearable.

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    1. Leaving the things you love as inheritance to your children is the best option - provided they'll love and respect your sentiments for those items.
      Donation comes next.Nowadays, one has a lot of charities to choose from. Clothes donation is the most popular form.

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  12. I think that sometimes holding on to things can actually hold us back - I like decluttering and find it very uplifting!

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    1. I believe you're right.De-cluttering gives us a sense of freedom and control.It reduces our mental load, makes us happy.

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    1. Thank you. Wishing you too a Happy, Healthy, Prosperous New Year!

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  14. Comparto tu interesante reflexión, y pienso, que las civilizaciones antiguas se enterraban junto a objetos que le habían sido útiles en esta vida, con la convicción de que les podían servir en su "nueva vida", como también hacían los egipcios para sus viajes al más allá.
    Hoy en día, estamos enterrados en vida, por objetos de todo tipo que obtenemos por un consumismo desmesurado, y que con el paso del tiempo nos vamos dando cuenta, de que no los hemos usados, o de que no nos sirven para nada; y es entonces, cuando empezamos a poner orden, como bien tu dices... Más vale tarde, que nunca.
    Un cordial saludo, estimada amiga, y mis mejores deseos de felicidad y prosperidad, para este nuevo año, que hoy comienza.

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    1. Great comment!
      Today, you say, we are buried alive by the objects obtained through excessive consumerism.
      So, very true! Thanks, Manuel.
      Wishing you a Happy, Healthy, prosperous New Year!

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  15. What an interesting post, DUTA. I have a hard time decluttering, and things I absolutely love (my antique wooden bowls), I have to save for my daughters, even though I don't know if they'll want them. Decluttering is something we keep putting off, yet we don't want to leave our daughters with that task. Every now and then, we'll get rid of a thing or two. At that pace, we'll have to live another few decades, lol.

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    1. Thank you, Bica. I agree - parents should not leave a mess to their children, and "try to clean the table", even if it's a hard task.
      I tend to put off a lot of things not only de-cluttering. For example, I have a 12 year old PC which gives me much trouble, and I constantly put off buying a new one.

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  16. Proof in spades that all that stuff was left behind in the graves, when the spades started digging. Nothing departed with the departed when departing off to the After-Life! :)

    My best wishes to you and your loved ones for 2022, DUTA...take good care. :)

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    1. Well, it's not for us to argue with people's firm beliefs.
      My best wishes to you too, Lee!
      May year 2022 be a happy,and prosperous one for you!

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  17. I think we all thing of decluttering in the new year, but you are correct, we hang on to too many things simply because we like certain thing, whether we need them or not. I am trying to donate a lot of my Christmas decor, but everything has special meaning or a fond memory attached to it. But I will keep trying. Happy New Year to you!

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    1. De-cluttering becomes rather pressing, if the person intends to move out to another place. I certainly would like to, but it's problematic.
      Wishing you a Fabulous New Year Alicia!

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  18. Your posts are always informative, and I always learn something. I like simplicity and don't care for too many knick knacks. Wishing you a happy nrew year.

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    1. Thanks Linda for your kind words. I'm glad you love my simplicity of style, and informative nature of my posts.
      Wishing you a Happy New Year, marked by good health and prosperity!

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  19. I have tried decluttering many times but somehow there will always be some items that I will keep back even though I won't be using or needing them.

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    1. I've been there, know about it, Nancy. Nevertheless, I won't stop my attempts to de-clutter my apt. It's important, even on a small scale.It makes everything look clearer and better.

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    1. Thank you, Victoria.
      Wishing you too A Happy, Successful New Year!

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  21. Boa tarde minha querida amiga. Passando para lhe desejar uma excelente tarde.

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    1. The same to you, Luiz!
      May you have an excellent start of the 2022 New Year!

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  22. Sending you all best wishes, Duta, for a good and better 2022 and for us all as well.

    Decluttering is an ongoing process for many of us. I also have many items that have sentimental vs. monetary value. Several were gifts from friends/family who have passed. think of them whenever I see the item and for me that's always a happy day.

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    1. I totally believe you. We, humans do have sentiments and feelings, despite our overall misbehavior.
      Best Wishes to you too for a fabulous 2022!

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  23. Decluttering can be quite difficult sometimes. I am constantly decluttering, but there are certain things I just can't get rid off. Others I have no problem with and off they go, becoming the treasure for someone else.

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    1. Yes, it much depends on the nature of the particular person. Some people have no problem giving away things, donating, or even...throwing them in the bin.

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  24. Happy New Year to you.
    My good wishes too.

    All the best Jan

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    1. Thank you, Jan. Best wishes to you too!
      Have a great 2022 year!

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  25. Happy new year to you!
    Let's hope we'll need not worry about what we can take to the afterlife!

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    1. If we don't believe in afterlife, then no chance we're going to worry about things to take with us.
      Wishing you a Happy New Year!

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